SOMETHING REALLY INTRIGUING ABOUT MOST WOMEN (WHO ARE IGNORANT AND IMMATURE ABOUT THE WAYS OF MEN) IS THE WAY THEY FALL FOR MEN AND THE KIND OF MEN THEY FALL FOR... WE WILL ALSO SEE HOW PLAYERS WHO HAVE AN UNDERSTANDING OF THESE WOMEN AND THEIR WEAKNESS ARE ABLE TO TAKE TOTAL ADVANTAGE OF IT AND MISUSE IT TO SEDUCE THEIR VICTIMS EASILY.
THIS ARTICLE DOES NOT APPLY TO
THE VERY FEW SMART WOMEN(Especially
the Women with GOOD CHARACTER, WHO ARE NOT HORMONE HIGH OR BOY CRAZY,
OR ARE MENTALLY/SPIRITUALLY WEAK and DON'T WASTE THEIR TIME RUNNING
BEHIND EVERY TOM, DICK OR HARRY) WHO KNOW WHAT MEN ARE LIKE AND WHAT
THEIR MAIN INTENTIONS ARE AND WHO KNOW HOW TO IDENTIFY THE REAL MEN FROM
THE MALES/PLAYERS
1) The Listening/Caring/Concerned Men:
Women
fall uncontrollably for guys who seem to understand their emotions
& needs, empathize them and show concern for their problems and
the Men who do their extra bit and go out of their way to help them.
This is because Women
a) Are Emotion/Love Oriented (Unlike Men Who are Physical
Sex/Love-Making Oriented). They Value & Enjoy Mental and
Spiritual Sex/Love-Making more than Physical Sex/Love-Making.
b) They tend to believe that Men who understand their emotions
& needs, empathize and show concern for their problems are Good
Men who are Loyal and make good Lovers/Husbands.
Players
who know this, treat the Women they want to
Physically Seduce, like they were their Lover/Wife. They stimulate,
nurture, and carefully without triggering suspicion, Undress Their Victims Mind & Soul and have Sex with their Emotions, Feelings & Spirituality and make them Feel
"On The Top Of The World", Cared and Loved and Wanted.
Once Their Victims are Mentally & Spiritually Seduced, these Players execute their Ulterior Motives and finally move on to Seducing their Victims
Physically (In Fact once a women is seduced Mentally/Spiritually she
does not even need to be seduced Physically [Unless She is a tough nut to
crack] as Women Who are Mentally/Spiritually Seduced Have nothing to protect them
and are as vulnerable as a "Turtle without its shell". They Can Do anything that they are asked to and many times
even serve themselves on a Plate, when they are overwhelmed OR they want to make the Guy
Happy OR Reward Him OR When They Fear Loosing Him and the Mental & Spiritual
Support, Stimulation and resulting Orgazam that They get from him).
Most Players know how easy it is to exploit this weakness.
->
They First Enter the lives of the Victim's Daily Life by Hook Or Crook
(IF THEY ARE NOT ALREADY A PART OF VICTIM'S SCHOOL / COLLEGE / WORKPLACE
/ OFFICE / FAMILY, FRIEND OR PARTY CIRCLE / GYM / HOBBY CENTRE ETC.)
->
Next they Befriend their victims in the most unsuspecting way by acting
as/pretending to be one of the Kinds of Men described below, with the
most common Roles being
"Platonic Man", "Hard To Get Man",
"Mr Etiquette / Mr. Chivalrous" or a combination of them.
-> Finally they take up the Role of the "
The Listening/Caring/Concerned Man"
and start a routine of repeatedly and regularly using, Simple But
Effective & Powerful Mental, Moral, Ethical, Mental &
Spiritual Guard Breakers.
They could be as simple as the Seemingly Harmless One Liners Like.
# "What happened? Are you alright?"
# "You look Sad/Depressed... You can share your problems with me if you trust me...
# "Is everything alright. You seem to be worried. I would love to help you, You know I care about you.
# "You look Stressed Out", Would you like to Have a Coffee with me OR Like me to give you a massage.
#
"You look Like you haven't slept in weeks", Would you mind telling me
whats troubling you, that is if you think I am your friend.
# "You seem to be lost", anything on your mind you would like to share with me.
# "Can I Help You with anything?"
Which is generally, just enough to make them drop their protective guard. They open up and undress their mind and spirit to the player giving him full control over them. The smart player who knows to have sex with the minds and spirit (trust me not everyone has got the patience to listen and mentally stimulate a woman they do not love) reaps maximum benefit of these moments to make the woman hooked on to him like a drug addict. Once hooked they are ready to be Used the way the player wants.
Why
these techniques work is because there is no Woman or Man on this
Planet at least, who does not have any problems. But Woman who are
Mentally & Spiritually Vulnerable tend to break down and search
for external Mental & Spiritual Support (which is easily
Obtainable from the Ever Ready Males/Players who are willing to do
anything to get what they want.) combined with the fact (explained before) that Women are Emotion/Love Oriented and Love/Enjoy Mental & Spiritual Stimulation/Sex/Love-Making make them easily Victimized by Players.
FORTUNATELY
THESE TECHNIQUES DON'T WORK ON WOMEN OF STRONG CHARACTER AND WHO HAVE
STRONG MORALS, ETHICS, PRINCIPLES AND CONCEPTS TO GUIDE AND PROTECT
THEM. THEY NEVER UNDRESS THEIR MIND AND SPIRIT OR HAVE SEX WITH OR MAKE LOVE MENTALLY OR SPIRITUALLY WITH ANYONE OTHER THAN THEIR LOVER/HUSBAND.
3) "I Accept You The Way You Are" Men
Both Men & Women would love anyone who would "Love & Accept them for the Way They Are & What They Are" which actually means accepting
Wholeheartedly, Unfaltering, Endlessly, in an Unquestioning, Un-Biased,
and Unconditional way, WITHOUT EVER Expecting or Pressurizing that
person to undergo even the slightest pain and struggle to make, change,
create or better any or all of those things which
A Person Lacks According to you, BUT Which That Person Has Never Been/Is Not Responsible For IT (WAS HELPLESSLY BORN WITH IT) SO/OR Has Never Had OR Hardly Had Any Control Over, For Either A Certain Period Of Time OR FOREVER...
For example, if the person you claim you love, has
natural blonde hair and you don't like blonde hair, The truth is, that
it is clearly an issue with your taste and proves the shallowness at
your end OR say the person you love is short or has saggy breasts or a small penis or doesn't not know how to make love and you secretly or openly have an issue with it, that clearly means that you are extremely shallow and know nothing about Love and should find your self a Sex Item/Whore/Gigolo. OR the Man you say you love is not very educated or not very rich or does not own fancy cars or bikes and if you have an issue with it, it just means that you are a very materialistic person and should look for Rich Males and NOT FOR LOVE. Or if the woman you say you love does not know to cook or clean or look after the babies and you hate her for that, then dont say that you love her or want to marry her, just GO LOOK FOR A SERVANT/NANNY.
Unfortunately many Men and Women pervert this Pure Concept to get their wrong/evil/impure way of life (Please Read: Perverting the foundations of love: "If you love m...)
PLAYERS DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR FEMALE VICTIMS WHETHER THEY LIVE OR DIE OR IF ANYTHING WILL AFFECT THEIR BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT OR THEIR LIFE, FUTURE IN AN IRREPARABLE WAY AND SO DON'T BOTHER ABOUT WHAT THEY DO AS LONG AS IT DOES NOT INTERFERE WITH OR PREVENT THEM FROM GETTING WHAT THEY WANT. They will never Stop the Women they target from doing anything that could be Bad for Their Health, Wealth, Life Or Well Being Nor Will They Ever Stop them from Committing Anything that is Socially, Morally, Ethically, Physically, Mentally or Spiritually Wrong or Evil in their life. IN FACT IT IS AFTER PLAYING WITH AND DESTROYING THE LIVES OF SUCH WOMEN THESE PLAYER FEEL NO GUILT/SHAME AND WILL RATHER JUSTIFY THEIR ACTIONS SAYING THAT THESE WOMEN WERE BAD/EVIL AND SO THEY DESERVE WHAT THEY GOT...
INTERESTINGLY It is Mainly the Women who wish to do Things That Are Not Right (Having Tobacco/Alcohol/Drugs/Sex Addictions OR Bad Habits OR Have Dangerous Life-Styles OR Have Dangerous/Bad Friends etc) AND Who Are Generally Stopped by their Lover/Husband OR Family in their Lives (who Truly Love and Care for them and cant see them Destroying Their Life, Their Health, Body Mind & Spirit) OR Who want to Live Like an animal No Morals, Ethics, Concept of Life, Love, Honestly, Loyalty OR Hygiene, General Knowledge etc, who fall for such Players.
4) Platonic Men:
Women
love guys who show no interest in their bodies, no matter even if they
dress up as Pamella Anderson. This makes women think that they are great
men who have no sexual looseness and will not be attracted to other
women (even if they are sexually attractive) and will be loyal to them
forever once they are in love.
Players who know this
fact deliberately ignore and show no interest in them and fake goodness
and display a un-seductable manhood. They know that they do not need to
struggle to get what they would otherwise get served on a plate by the
very woman who was trying to protect it.
The men who
may even look out of shock, awe, admiration at what they are being
shown are considered to be cheap, perverts etc. (which is true in most
cases), while they never feel that they themselves are cheap, by
dressing so cheap.
Men in love who love the beauty of
their lover's body and love to make love to them may end up being
misunderstood as perverts and players.
5) Hard to get Men:
Women love men who play hard to get.
Similar
to to the above case, they feel that if they are impossible to impress
and unattainable so no other woman would be able to impress them (no
matter how Intelligent, Skilled, Hardworking, Successful she is) once
they are in love.
If fact the more you keep a air of disinterest
the more they are drawn to you... They will never love if you, go in for
that 1000% kinda dedication... They start feeling you are kinda sticky
and all
Players who know this fact play the game in
combination with the Platonic game and finally end up getting more,
sometimes even a woman on her knees.
The men who may
admire them and run behind them are considered to Desperate or having
Hidden Agendas (which is true in most cases)
Men in love who love to admire, encourage and praise their lover's skills and abilities are again misunderstood to be the same.
6) Mr Etiquette / Mr. Chivalrous:
Women who love to be flattered love these kind of men.
They
think that men who are so well groomed and chivalrous respect women
very much and have a very good understanding to how to behave with women
and so will make perfect husbands which is generally far from the
truth.
Men trained in the army/forces/cops
or who belong to families with one or more members from such backgrounds
are generally well trained/groomed in Etiquette and Chivalry and make a
quick and hard to beat impression on women who love to be pampered.
These things do help to impress. woo, seduce, court and hook women
during courtship, but have nothing much to do with Love more over on the
long term these don't help much for the survival of a relationship.
Players
who know this fact groom themselves in all these aspects and utilize it
to their maximum advantage to make that first and hitting impression
and thus making themselves the Knights of the hearts of women. What is
interesting to note that for some women true love doesn't matter as long
as the guy keeps papering them and flattering them, unfortunately such
things don't last and these women often end up getting rude shocks from
these men. Strangely though these women mostly still don't realize that
these things have nothing to do with love and continue to cherish and
praise the very Mr. Etiquette/Mr. Chivalrous who decides to be the same
with other women too.
Men who believe that Men and
Women are equal may not feel the need to open the door or pull a chair
for woman unless they are unwell or unable to, are generally
misunderstood to be culture less, rude and un-chivalrous etc. Women need
to understand and decide if they really want to be feminists or normal
women. If they are feminists who think they are no less than men then
there is no reason to expect such things from men (If men do it entirely
out of love its different thing) and those who believe that nature has
made differences between man and women for a reason and that they are
delicate and fragile and need to be taken care of should be ok with
wanting to be taken care off, but should not be foolish to judge a man
just by these things only.
7) Prince Charming/Knight In Shining Armour:
Fairy
Tales and Stories have long been fueling the imagination of Women
making most of them fantasize and long for their Prince Charming/Knight
in Shining Armour who would come rescue them...
Life is
a struggle and its not easy and every woman (like every man) is unhappy
about something or the other... some women are practical, hardworking,
strong and fight their way alone in life while there are many who are
desperate for some one who could save them from their problems -
Financial, Emotional, Physical etc..
Players who know
this generally hunt for these women in distress and create situations to
enter into their life giving them what ever financial, emotional etc
support they need (Even though it is temporary till they get laid) and
make these foolish women beleieve that they are their heroes and saviors
and as a reward these women give these players everything that they
want with pleasure... only to wake up next morning alone in bed,
devastated and crying...
8) Rich/Powerful men with Fancy Cars/Bikes, Fat Wallets and Expensive Gifts:
Materialistic
Women (Mostly Characterless Women, mostly of lower financial standard. They are rarely from Rich Millionaire Families who already have all these) love rich men with fancy Cars/Bikes, having lot of money and who can
shower truck loads of Expensive gifts on women at the drop of a hat. THESE kind of WOMEN GENERALLY HAVE AN UNBELIEVABLE KNOWLEDGE OF EXPENSIVE CARS AND BIKES AND INTERNATIONAL STORES BRANDS, INTERNATIONAL FUN DESTINATIONS AND ABOVE ALL THE KEY TO IDENTIFY VIP AND VVIP MEN FROM THEIR CAR/BIKE NUMBER PLATES AND MOBILE NUMBERS. In fact you can easily hear them go "Oh look at that Number it surely must be a CELEBRITY/VIP."
Rich Players know they hardly need to work hard to get their Victim to the Bed. As these women generally have limited or no exposure to the Richness/Luxuries/Spoils of life from their own families - Even the cheapest gift from a Millionaire Playboy would be in Hundreds of dollars,
A cruise in a luxury private jet/boat or a long drive on his 1000cc heavy duty sports bike or 1000 horse power sports car, is nothing but his regular time pass.
But all this is BIG Luxury for these women is enough to make them become their personal keeps. WHAT THEY FORGET IS THESE RICH PLAYBOYS WOULD NEVER LOVE/MARRY THEM, THEY WILL ONLY KEEP THEM & USE THEM LIKE EVERYTHING THEY OWN.
The not so rich but Smart Players know how to fake being Rich or Stylish, they hire/borrow expensive Cars/Bikes take their Victims on 5 star dates and do just enough to hook their victim and get them to bed.
9) Filmy (Movie like) / Storybook Men:
Dreamy Women love men who act/behave like Movie/Storybook characters heroes.
Most
of the Movie/Storybook like characters seem very unreal and the women
who are influenced by Media Movies and music fall very easily for men
who try to mimic those characters.
Many Players try to ape the traits of famous Movie/Storybook Characters that their victim fantasizes the most, using it as his ticket to get her attention and act as a real life substitute to the fictional onscreen/storybook character. No sooner she is hooked he goes in for the Kill.
10) Handsome Men Or Movie/Singer/Model/Celebrity Star Lookalikes :
Shallow
Women love men who look Handsome and have well built muscular chiseled
Sexy bodies like Movie/Music Stars/Celebrities etc. even if they do not
look like a Female Movie/Singer/Stars/Model/Celebrity themselves.
Most players are good looking/sexy, and know their face value and know just who has fallen for them. They spend hours in front of the Mirror, in Men's Saloons grooming themselves and Toning themselves in Gyms and making themselves as attractive & sexy as possible. They utilize their good looks as a bait to hook and Use their Victims.
