Are you really in Love??? [A Reality Check]

*This post will constantly be updated with the latest information...

YOU ARE 100% DEFINITELY NOT IN TRUE ROMANTIC LOVE IF : (No matter even if you feel even one of the below feelings)

1. You commit any or all these violations against the one you claim you love:
1. Physical Violations 
• You are still attracted to in a way you should not and enjoy the beauty or sexuality of others .
• You like others being attracted to your beauty or your sexuality and dress in a way to attract them.
• You feel like touching, like to touch, or crave to touch anyone else.
• You feel the need to be touched, like being touched, or crave to be touched by anyone else.
• You touch others or let them touch you in a way they should not and yet don't mind or object to it and worse you don't find anything wrong with it.
• You get sexually involved with others.
2. Mental Violations
• You are able to think of others in a way you should not.
• You like, crave for the attention of others in a way you should not and talk, act, behave or interact in a way to get their attention.
• You discuss issues or share secrets in a way you should not with others that you should discuss or share only with the one you claim you love.
• You have or enjoy sexual or double meaning conversations and jokes in a way you should not with anyone other than the one you claim you love.
• You enjoy watching, sharing very private/personal, vulgar or pornographic pictures and videos in a way you should not with anyone other than the one you claim you love.
• You continue to be in touch with people in your past relationships in a way you should not.
• You remember and miss the good times with people in your past relationships in a way you should not.
3. Spiritual Violations:
• You feel the need of the presence, aura, energy etc. of others in a way you should not.
• You feel and miss the presence of people in your past relationships and lament their absence in a way you should not.
2. You are even confused whether you are in love with that person.
3. You feel that you love him only because that person looks like/has a physique/walk/talks/behaves like another person (parent/friend/ex-)/movie star/celebrity etc.
4. You secretly wish/openly express that you want that person to look like/have a physique/walk/talk/behave like another person (parent/friend/ex-)/movie star/celebrity etc.
5. You are uncomfortable with or feel yucky/strange/different or disgusted about that person's Body Fluids /Secretions/Excretions (Saliva, Sweat, Vomit, Urine, Farts, Menstrual, Seminal Fluids Etc.)
6. You get irritated or disgusted by that person's Way of Sleep (Snoring, Hugging while sleeping etc.)
7. You say/feel that you love him only because he loves you.
8. You like/enjoy/don't mind being alone.
9. You want a private life without any interference or questions and are okay for that person to also have a personal life. 
10. You do/like/don't feel its wrong doing things behind his/her back and worse you don't feel guilty for it.
11. You want a separate way of life that does not include anything to do with the one you claim you love.
12. You cant tolerate the person (his/her presence, thoughts, touch, caring etc.) you claim you love for more than a certain period of time.
13. You instantly start throwing stones to hide your hands, the moment you are being corrected by that person for something wrong you intentionally did, by finding non existent or irrelevant faults in the person you claim you love. 
14. You deliberately do Tit for Tat to 
1. Hurt that person, 
2. Justify your own evil deeds(that you have been wanting to do anyway but didn't get an excuse to do so).
15. You are egoistic, and self centered.
16. You can even think of hurting the person you claim you love physically (physical abuse, murder, acid attack), mentally (Intentional character assassination, mental torture) and spiritually (assassination of ones spirituality) just because that person spurned your love/refused to love you/hurt you/insulted you etc..
17. You can even think of mocking or making fun of or worse insulting that person (physically/mentally/spiritually) , his weakness or the relationship that you claim you are in, in front of others.
18. You need your friends, family, relatives to tell you or convince you if you should love that person or not.
19. You do not trust that person in-spite of that person being honest, and has never lied to you, done things behind your back or hidden things from you, or insulted you or your sentiments in anyway.
20. You feel that the problems in the life of the person you claim to love are his/her own and feel no need to help or guide that person.
21. You don't care for/bother about/respect that person's Family, Friends, Studies, Job, Career, Passion, Health, Finances, etc.
22. You don't want to even give a chance or you don't even have the heart, patience, willingness to hear out, what that person has to say, irrespective of whether its that person's fault or just your own misunderstanding.

You ARE DEFINITELY In Love IF:

1. You know that you can and will unfailingly, untiringly, happily and faithfully dedicate your entire life to the one you love.
2. You love that person irrespective of whether he loves you or not.
3. Your love for that person does not diminish with time. 
4. You want to live not for yourself but for the person you love.
5. Your are able to ceaselessly love that person even if he/she is or becomes unattractive/ugly or scarily scarred beyond recognition, terminally ill, physically handicapped, mentally ill, impotent etc.
6. You love that person crazily irrespective of whether he/she is rich or poor, famous or unknown, intelligent or unintelligent, good looking or ugly, expert in sex or a newbie, etc.
7. You feel no difference between his/her and your: Money, Wealth, Family and Economic Status, Caste, Religion etc and feel the same amount of love and respect for his/her Family, Friends and Pets. 
8. You can do any and everything that is good and necessary to be the "Perfect One" for that person.
9. You can do anything from the core of your soul without regrets for that person that is:
1. You want to give up everything that is bad(bad habits, addictions, weaknesses, etc ) in you.
2. You want to "change for the good" your everything(negative point of view, fanatic or archaic principles, funny looking/self derogatory/immodest dress sense etc.) for that person, if you know that it would make him/her happy.
3. You can selflessly sacrifice your everything(Career, Hobbies, Interests/Passion) for that person if it is necessary.
10. You know that everything you do and everything that you want to do (living & being happy, eating, staying healthy, being safe, dressing, studying, working, career, etc.) you do it for that person.
11. You know you would never give up on that person no matter what happens either to you or between both of you.
12. You always try to sought the most painful differences with that person through discussions and not by violence, fighting, tit for tat, mud slinging, or by throwing stones to hide your hands
13. You know that nothing can make you be physically, mentally & spiritually unloyal and unfaithful to that person, no matter where (away from that person) you are, who you meet(even if the person you meet is your Ex., or is a Celebrity/Star or is the the most Handsome/Beautiful/Stud/Sexy thing that you have ever seen, or touched) and in whatever condition  you are (no matter how depressed, frustrated or sex starved you are).
14. You see love even in that person's angry face, you hear love in that person's angry voice and words.
15. You are Love Centered & Relationship Centered (Not Self Centered and Egoistic, Family Centered, Friend Centered etc). You tirelessly, unwaveringly strive to become a perfect lover and you strive to make your relationship stronger and better everyday.
16. You have exclusively reserved, dedicated and offered your everything -
    (You would never share it with anyone else and would fiercely protect it and will never let anyone else even accidentally enjoy or be able steal even a tiny bit of it.)
• Body (every cell in it, every eye pleasing and attractive feature in you which you know gives that person endless happiness and which you know that it is something everyone else would love to see, touch, feel and enjoy),
• Mind (emotions, deep secrets,etc.)
• Spirit (soul, spiritual connectivity) to that person and can never even dream of sharing it with anyone else.
• Worldly possessions (wealth, money, assets etc.)

You MAYBE In Love IF:

("Maybe" because you may be feeling some of the feelings listed right above for reasons other than love which you may or may not be consciously aware of).

1. You can never even think of living a life with out your lover. Not even a life alone.
2. Your life would be meaningless without your lover.
3. You want to be the one behind that person's happiness, success, fame and good fortune. You are tirelessly self committed to and ready to do anything and everything and make any sacrifice that may be needed for that. 
4. You keep finding reasons to be in the relationship and not finding reasons to escape from it.
5. You know you are in love when you love your lover no matter how much differences you have in taste or principles.
6. You never get bored of your lovers talk, emotions and presence etc.
7. You feel more pleasure, happiness, satisfaction and pride in doing things with that person than you ever felt doing the same things alone
8. You can't bear or tolerate your lover be insulted or hurt by anyone else.
9. You can't see/or deliberately let your lover fall into any trouble, do anything wrong or dangerous (getting into bad habits, bad influences, evil company etc.). You will do anything to stop him/her from doing it even if it means endangering your life, relationships etc.

If you feel at least 90% of these feelings and any other positive and good feelings that I may have missed out on... then Congratulations you are definitely are in love...