FOREWORD:

FOREWORD:

"I know my thoughts are different from most of you who are reading this blog... So pardon me if it hurts your sentiments in anyway, because, it is not my intention... Well I would still request you, to not shut your mind completely and to think honestly, with out bias, or preconceived notions about what I have written and I am sure you will understand every word that I have written..." - ZaThinker

This space is dedicated to all the great people I have met or seen in my life and who have taught me everything that I know about life today....

From the paralyzed and immobilized beggar snailing flat on the dirty market street, picking up grains of rice with his tongue that was splattered on the floor by some ungrateful homo sapien who had too much, to the richest guy I have seen, who lives and dines like a King but is yet not satisfied in his life, From the rescued baby girl (I wish to adopt when i am more able or at least sponsor her in some way) at Missionaries of Charity who would never stopped being happy (talking to herself, singing songs and dancing) despite being blind, to the old women in the "Home for the Destitutes" who's children left them to die, but who still have the love in their hearts and have not lost faith in humanity (they ask my mom about me every time they see her and pray for me always). From all the strangers who hurt me or tried to harm me in some way or the other to the Women in my life who are the only ones who could come the closest to me physically, mentally and spiritually and so were able to hurt me worse than a stranger could.

LIFE TEACHES ALL: AND THE SMART ARE THOSE WHO LEARN NOT FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES BUT FROM THE EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES OF OTHERS.... BUT THE ONES TRULY BLESSED ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SOME ONE SPECIAL IN THEIR LIVES, TO BREAK DOWN THE MYSTERY OF LIFE, SOLVE IT FOR THEM AND ENLIGHTEN THEM ON THE TRUTH OF LIFE THUS SAVING THEM THE FRUSTRATION & TRAUMA OF DECIPHERING IT THEMSELVES...

UNFORTUNATELY LIKE ME, NOT EVERY ONE OF US IS LUCKY TO HAVE ONE...

WHAT IS MORE UNFORTUNATE IS THAT, I HAVE LEARNT ALL THAT I AM SHARING WITH YOU, ONLY AFTER INEVITABLY DESTROYING MY LIFE IRREVERSIBLY, AND IN THE PROCESS UNINTENTIONALLY AND HELPLESSLY HURTING MANY DEAR ONES, NOT BECAUSE I WANTED TO, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD MY SELF OR MY WEAKNESS AND THE CONCEPTS/PRINCIPLES OF LIFE WHEN I SHOULD HAVE...

SO IF IT IS RIGHT TO LEARN SKILLS ONLY FROM PEOPLE/GUIDES/TEACHERS WHO REALLY KNOW THOSE SKILLS, THEN IT ONLY MAKES SENSE TO LEARN ALL WHAT ONE SHOULD NEVER DO, FROM THE VERY PEOPLE/SINNERS LIKE ME WHO HAVE DONE WRONG/SINNED IN THEIR LIFE AND ARE REGRETTING TODAY!!!

Note: ALL CONTENT IS BASED ON TRUE INCIDENTS THAT HAVE HAPPENED WITH EITHER ME OR SOMEONE I HAVE OBSERVED, MET OR KNOWN VERY WELL... NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT THE IDENTITY OF THE PERSONS INVOLVED.

THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO PASS JUDGMENTS ON ANYONE BUT FOR US ALL TO LEARN ABOUT LIFE - THE MISTAKES WE DO WITH OUT EVEN REALIZING. THE MENTAL BLOCKS WE HAVE ETC... - ZaThinker

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Friday, October 26, 2012

Pre-Love-Proposal - CHECKLIST (DO's & DON'Ts)

*This post will constantly be updated with the latest information...

MANY HAVE PROPOSED TO THE ONES THEY ENDED UP THINKING THEY WERE IN LOVE WITH (MOSTLY BECAUSE OF PHYSICAL MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL VIOLATIONS), WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING THEIR REAL FEELINGS AND CONFUSED # ATTRACTION, INFATUATION, AFFECTION, EMPATHY, ETC. WITH LOVE AND FINALLY ENDED UP REGRETTING WHEN THEY REALIZED THAT THEY WERE NOT IN LOVE.  

WHILE MANY OTHERS WHO ARE IN TRUE LOVE MESS UP BECAUSE OF NOT KNOWING HOW TO EXPRESS THEIR TRUE LOVE.

SO HERE IS A CHECKLIST THAT YOU CAN REFER TO BEFORE YOU UTTER THE VERY SACRED WORDS: "I LOVE YOU"

1ST CHECK WHETHER YOU ARE QUALIFIED TO PROPOSE:
IF YOU ARE SURE THAT YOU ARE QUALIFIED TO PROPOSE THE CHECKLIST BELOW MAY COME IN HANDY:
THE PRE-LOVE-PROPOSAL - CHECKLIST (DO's & DON'Ts):
  • CHECK IF You are not under the influences of any Substance (Alcohol, Drugs etc.) when you propose.
  • Propose IN PERSON ONLY.
    Only when there is no other way out, should you use any of the following modes of communication (Ordered according to preferred mode, starting with most preferred mode) to propose:
    1. Video Call
    2. Phone Call
    3. SMS
    4. Email
    5. Postal Letter.
  • Never use a Mediator/Love Messenger (Irrespective of Who It Is)
    Only when there is no other way out should you use any of the following as a messenger (Ordered according to preferred person, starting with most preferred person) -
    1. Sibling/Parent of the One you love who likes you and you know is on your side.
    2. Best friend of the Same gender of the person you love who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in you.
    3. Your best friend who is of the Same gender as the person you love and who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in you.
    4. Best friend of Opposite gender of the person, you love, who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in the person you love or Vice-Versa.
    5. Your best friend of the Opposite gender, to the person you love and who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in the person you love or Vice-Versa.

    More coming up...
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