FOREWORD:

FOREWORD:

"I know my thoughts are different from most of you who are reading this blog... So pardon me if it hurts your sentiments in anyway, because, it is not my intention... Well I would still request you, to not shut your mind completely and to think honestly, with out bias, or preconceived notions about what I have written and I am sure you will understand every word that I have written..." - ZaThinker

This space is dedicated to all the great people I have met or seen in my life and who have taught me everything that I know about life today....

From the paralyzed and immobilized beggar snailing flat on the dirty market street, picking up grains of rice with his tongue that was splattered on the floor by some ungrateful homo sapien who had too much, to the richest guy I have seen, who lives and dines like a King but is yet not satisfied in his life, From the rescued baby girl (I wish to adopt when i am more able or at least sponsor her in some way) at Missionaries of Charity who would never stopped being happy (talking to herself, singing songs and dancing) despite being blind, to the old women in the "Home for the Destitutes" who's children left them to die, but who still have the love in their hearts and have not lost faith in humanity (they ask my mom about me every time they see her and pray for me always). From all the strangers who hurt me or tried to harm me in some way or the other to the Women in my life who are the only ones who could come the closest to me physically, mentally and spiritually and so were able to hurt me worse than a stranger could.

LIFE TEACHES ALL: AND THE SMART ARE THOSE WHO LEARN NOT FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES BUT FROM THE EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES OF OTHERS.... BUT THE ONES TRULY BLESSED ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SOME ONE SPECIAL IN THEIR LIVES, TO BREAK DOWN THE MYSTERY OF LIFE, SOLVE IT FOR THEM AND ENLIGHTEN THEM ON THE TRUTH OF LIFE THUS SAVING THEM THE FRUSTRATION & TRAUMA OF DECIPHERING IT THEMSELVES...

UNFORTUNATELY LIKE ME, NOT EVERY ONE OF US IS LUCKY TO HAVE ONE...

WHAT IS MORE UNFORTUNATE IS THAT, I HAVE LEARNT ALL THAT I AM SHARING WITH YOU, ONLY AFTER INEVITABLY DESTROYING MY LIFE IRREVERSIBLY, AND IN THE PROCESS UNINTENTIONALLY AND HELPLESSLY HURTING MANY DEAR ONES, NOT BECAUSE I WANTED TO, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD MY SELF OR MY WEAKNESS AND THE CONCEPTS/PRINCIPLES OF LIFE WHEN I SHOULD HAVE...

SO IF IT IS RIGHT TO LEARN SKILLS ONLY FROM PEOPLE/GUIDES/TEACHERS WHO REALLY KNOW THOSE SKILLS, THEN IT ONLY MAKES SENSE TO LEARN ALL WHAT ONE SHOULD NEVER DO, FROM THE VERY PEOPLE/SINNERS LIKE ME WHO HAVE DONE WRONG/SINNED IN THEIR LIFE AND ARE REGRETTING TODAY!!!

Note: ALL CONTENT IS BASED ON TRUE INCIDENTS THAT HAVE HAPPENED WITH EITHER ME OR SOMEONE I HAVE OBSERVED, MET OR KNOWN VERY WELL... NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT THE IDENTITY OF THE PERSONS INVOLVED.

THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO PASS JUDGMENTS ON ANYONE BUT FOR US ALL TO LEARN ABOUT LIFE - THE MISTAKES WE DO WITH OUT EVEN REALIZING. THE MENTAL BLOCKS WE HAVE ETC... - ZaThinker

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Sunday, August 28, 2016

Analysing the "My Daddy (is the) Strongest!!!" Mindset

We often get to hear kids say things like "My Daddy (is the) Strongest!!!" and As Indians we often get to hear things like

# "Saare Jahan Se Accha"
# "India is the Best"
# "Indians are the Best"

This is similar to the format
Oh my Planet / Continent / Country / State / District / Village / Colony / Neighbourhood / Street / House / Family / I-> is/am great and the greatest!!

This is a typical case of my daddy is the strongest!!!!

No doubt my dad/mom is awesome, but i must also remember that everyone's dad/mom is equally special, awesome or good as, if not better in some way or the other...

This mindset is very prevalent in people of many countries especially Americans and Indians!!!

Almost everyday you will get to see on social media networks or hear that
# We Indians are the founders/creators of this and that (actually everything on this planet lol!!!)...
# Our xyz is the best in the world (if you have not realized everything that is Indian is the best in the world rofl!!!)
as if we are the only people in the world who have had brains... And the rest of the world is brainless... [S.M.H.]

What is outrageous is making tall claims that Indians are the creators of even entirely generic things like martial arts, music and many other things etc... Given a chance they would like to claim that they were the ones who came up with the idea of cooking food and created language!!!

The next thing that arises out of this mentality is people riding on the Laurels of others
Here too we get to hear
# "X of Indian Origin did this Great Thing"
# "The Inventor/Minister/Actor X is of Indian Origin"

In any case even if an Indian did create something great in the past or present, that in no way gives Indians today any right to ride on their fame and neither does it endorse or declare that any other Indian is equally great or capable of anything great.

There are countless cases of Indians who were of no value in their own place/village/state/country, were given no help and were totally ignored, but after they went abroad, got quality education and created/invented/discovered amazing things, the media then is filled with reports about them being Indians or being of “Indian origin”, and then you have people on s.m.n. Talking about how great Indians are (indirectly hinting that they are great too)...

Best is my own example - I have south Indian roots but have received major of my education and skills in the north east and north of India. In fact even my limited stay in one of the southern states was one of the worst experiences i have ever had... So :
# How on earth are other South Indians responsible for any or the achievements i have made in my life..
# How can they shamelessly claim credit for even the smallest achievement of mine?

Interestingly people who are wired this way don't just stop with India...
Once they are done bragging about India then will narrow into the next level - my state is this best, then when they are done with that they will continue self centering to their district, village etc etc being the best and finally come to the point my family is the best and end with i am the best in my family!!!

There is something seriously wrong with the way homo sapiens are wired... They always need to feel superior or better than others, they keep fishing for compliments at every opportunity, need reassurance about their value,  how they are great and want everyone to believe that too.

This is another hurdle that is coming in the way of a Homo Sapien evolving into a human being!!!

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