FOREWORD:

FOREWORD:

"I know my thoughts are different from most of you who are reading this blog... So pardon me if it hurts your sentiments in anyway, because, it is not my intention... Well I would still request you, to not shut your mind completely and to think honestly, with out bias, or preconceived notions about what I have written and I am sure you will understand every word that I have written..." - ZaThinker

This space is dedicated to all the great people I have met or seen in my life and who have taught me everything that I know about life today....

From the paralyzed and immobilized beggar snailing flat on the dirty market street, picking up grains of rice with his tongue that was splattered on the floor by some ungrateful homo sapien who had too much, to the richest guy I have seen, who lives and dines like a King but is yet not satisfied in his life, From the rescued baby girl (I wish to adopt when i am more able or at least sponsor her in some way) at Missionaries of Charity who would never stopped being happy (talking to herself, singing songs and dancing) despite being blind, to the old women in the "Home for the Destitutes" who's children left them to die, but who still have the love in their hearts and have not lost faith in humanity (they ask my mom about me every time they see her and pray for me always). From all the strangers who hurt me or tried to harm me in some way or the other to the Women in my life who are the only ones who could come the closest to me physically, mentally and spiritually and so were able to hurt me worse than a stranger could.

LIFE TEACHES ALL: AND THE SMART ARE THOSE WHO LEARN NOT FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES BUT FROM THE EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES OF OTHERS.... BUT THE ONES TRULY BLESSED ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SOME ONE SPECIAL IN THEIR LIVES, TO BREAK DOWN THE MYSTERY OF LIFE, SOLVE IT FOR THEM AND ENLIGHTEN THEM ON THE TRUTH OF LIFE THUS SAVING THEM THE FRUSTRATION & TRAUMA OF DECIPHERING IT THEMSELVES...

UNFORTUNATELY LIKE ME, NOT EVERY ONE OF US IS LUCKY TO HAVE ONE...

WHAT IS MORE UNFORTUNATE IS THAT, I HAVE LEARNT ALL THAT I AM SHARING WITH YOU, ONLY AFTER INEVITABLY DESTROYING MY LIFE IRREVERSIBLY, AND IN THE PROCESS UNINTENTIONALLY AND HELPLESSLY HURTING MANY DEAR ONES, NOT BECAUSE I WANTED TO, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD MY SELF OR MY WEAKNESS AND THE CONCEPTS/PRINCIPLES OF LIFE WHEN I SHOULD HAVE...

SO IF IT IS RIGHT TO LEARN SKILLS ONLY FROM PEOPLE/GUIDES/TEACHERS WHO REALLY KNOW THOSE SKILLS, THEN IT ONLY MAKES SENSE TO LEARN ALL WHAT ONE SHOULD NEVER DO, FROM THE VERY PEOPLE/SINNERS LIKE ME WHO HAVE DONE WRONG/SINNED IN THEIR LIFE AND ARE REGRETTING TODAY!!!

Note: ALL CONTENT IS BASED ON TRUE INCIDENTS THAT HAVE HAPPENED WITH EITHER ME OR SOMEONE I HAVE OBSERVED, MET OR KNOWN VERY WELL... NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT THE IDENTITY OF THE PERSONS INVOLVED.

THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO PASS JUDGMENTS ON ANYONE BUT FOR US ALL TO LEARN ABOUT LIFE - THE MISTAKES WE DO WITH OUT EVEN REALIZING. THE MENTAL BLOCKS WE HAVE ETC... - ZaThinker

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Friday, October 26, 2012

Are Females Really That Innocent???

SORRY THIS POST HAS BEEN SHIFTED TO NEW BLOG BECAUSE OF CONTENT 
PLEASE VISIT THE NEW LINK BELOW, THANK YOU.

Pre-Love-Proposal - CHECKLIST (DO's & DON'Ts)

*This post will constantly be updated with the latest information...

MANY HAVE PROPOSED TO THE ONES THEY ENDED UP THINKING THEY WERE IN LOVE WITH (MOSTLY BECAUSE OF PHYSICAL MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL VIOLATIONS), WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING THEIR REAL FEELINGS AND CONFUSED # ATTRACTION, INFATUATION, AFFECTION, EMPATHY, ETC. WITH LOVE AND FINALLY ENDED UP REGRETTING WHEN THEY REALIZED THAT THEY WERE NOT IN LOVE.  

WHILE MANY OTHERS WHO ARE IN TRUE LOVE MESS UP BECAUSE OF NOT KNOWING HOW TO EXPRESS THEIR TRUE LOVE.

SO HERE IS A CHECKLIST THAT YOU CAN REFER TO BEFORE YOU UTTER THE VERY SACRED WORDS: "I LOVE YOU"

1ST CHECK WHETHER YOU ARE QUALIFIED TO PROPOSE:

IF YOU ARE SURE THAT YOU ARE QUALIFIED TO PROPOSE THE CHECKLIST BELOW MAY COME IN HANDY:
THE PRE-LOVE-PROPOSAL - CHECKLIST (DO's & DON'Ts):
  • CHECK IF You are not under the influences of any Substance (Alcohol, Drugs etc.) when you propose.
  • Propose IN PERSON ONLY.
    Only when there is no other way out, should you use any of the following modes of communication (Ordered according to preferred mode, starting with most preferred mode) to propose:
    1. Video Call
    2. Phone Call
    3. SMS
    4. Email
    5. Postal Letter.
  • Never use a Mediator/Love Messenger (Irrespective of Who It Is)
    Only when there is no other way out should you use any of the following as a messenger (Ordered according to preferred person, starting with most preferred person) -
    1. Sibling/Parent of the One you love who likes you and you know is on your side.
    2. Best friend of the Same gender of the person you love who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in you.
    3. Your best friend who is of the Same gender as the person you love and who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in you.
    4. Best friend of Opposite gender of the person, you love, who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in the person you love or Vice-Versa.
    5. Your best friend of the Opposite gender, to the person you love and who YOU ARE SURE is not interested in the person you love or Vice-Versa.

    More coming up...

Monday, October 15, 2012

Is All That Touching, Brushing & Scrubbing Really Accidental?

Interestingly many women claim to know when being sexually ogled at, touched, scrubbed or squeezed. In fact there are few women who have even refused to agree that they were being taken advantage off, saying that the guys are just friends and it happened accidentally!!!

I don't think so just take a look at this clip (which though is from a movie, and is not very discretely done, yet it is a depiction of what actually happens.)

This video is something women must watch, and think if they really want to be the kind of "Girl Friend" that means nothing more to guys than just a pair of Big Boobs and Big Ass with a Pretty Face for them to fulfill their Sexual Fantasies...


Now for some real life videos:

Actress Jyothika Groped during Movie Shooting

Groping in Mumbai during Ganpati Visarjan 

I don't think this groping was a part of the Script!!!

Below is an incident that took place in a rally
 
 If you are lucky you will come to know...

Whats worse is nowadays you have females who walk directly and bump into you even when there is enough space on the other sides!!! and guys have to stay alert just to avoid being bumped into...

Sunday, October 14, 2012

HIGHEST LEVEL OF TRUE LOVE...

This is the Highest Level of TRUE LOVE...

When you see God in the one you love, you will know that you are at that level...

Unfortunately this is something NOT MANY (especially those so called self proclaimed "Modern" or "Hi Fi" People) Can Ever even begin to Understand or ever feel for anyone in their life...

Below are clips from a Bollywood Movie that depicts this level of Love...
Please Note: You need to watch the entire movie "Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi" to understand these clips.
PLEASE NOTE: The Clip Auto plays from 4:37mins for the Actual Scene

Hope All So Called "Lovers" Learn something from these Clips


Saturday, October 13, 2012

Are You Qualified To Fall In/Be In TRUE LOVE?


Please Note: This Post will be constantly Updated with the Latest info.

I used to think I was qualified, Untill I Learnt the Hard way few years back...

Even though I don't have most of the issues mentioned below, I have had just enough issues/faults at my end, to make the biggest blunders in my life... I am sorry to all, who I, Unintentionally hurt in the past.

I would also like to thank the Women & Females in my life (who made me realize a lot about What Love Is and What Love Isn't) and to my Friends & Students to have shared their personal experiences with me regarding the same...

YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO BE IN LOVE WITH A PERSON IF YOU:
  • Don't Know the true meaning of Love or worse you have your own perverted concepts of love (Also Read Perverting the Concepts of life) 
  • Are Confused and Cant understand your own Feelings and Emotions for another.(Cause a person in Love is NEVER CONFUSED)
  • Can't differentiate between Attractions, Infatuations, etc.
  • Don't know the Inevitable consequences of Physical, Mental & Spiritual Violations with people you are not in love with.
  • Know Can & Will, Lie & Hide from the person you say you Truly love.
  • Have not Gotten over you Ex. Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Husband/Wife completely from the core.
  • Feel that your Ex was better(even in the smallest way) than the New Person In your life.
  • Know you cannot give your 100% to a relationship. 
  • Are Hormone High and Boy or Girl Crazy.
  • Don't know how to COMPLETELY BELONG to someone.
  • You have too much ego to submit yourself to the person you love.
  • You feel the need to have your own Private/Personal Life, That does not include, the person you cliam you love.
  • Look at the person you think, you love, as a Third party and Question or Judge that person for his/her Past(The Time When you were not there), without understanding the Situation from that Person's Point of View.
    What is wrong is if that Person has ALWAYS been 100% honest with you about his/her past and you have not been, even half as honest to him/her.
    And worst is if you still go around Questioning about that person from other people, NOT BECAUSE:
    • You want to get to know that person better and be able to love that person more.
    • You want to help him/her get over the past horrors, memories or bad habits/addictions etc
    • You want to make that person understand his/her past mistakes as its continuing into the present.
      BUT TO find faults and hurt that person when caught in a dispute Or to find reasons to get out of the Relationship.
  • You know you will continue to do things that are detrimental to the Relationship, (Like Spiritual, Mental or Physical Violations, Being Materialistic, etc) that are against the concepts, ethics and protocols of love.
  • You are not willing to give up or at least put an effort to give up and don't sincerely feel guilty for your Bad Habits and Addictions. (If you are 100% HONEST and show your sincerity to change, then even the person who you love, will try to understand you and will help you get over it and will be able to forgive you if you ever loose control)
  • Know You May Never Be Able Dedicate Your life OR give your all, TO CONNECT COMPLETELY: PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY & SPIRITUALLY WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE. then forget falling in Love. (It is true that some of these connections do take long time, to get established properly, but if you feel from the beginning itself, that you cannot connect, even in one way, then like I said Forget it).
  • Are Self-Centered & Selfish.
  • Are Materialistic
    • It means you will always value materialistic things more than Human Emotions and can skip ethics and morals for achieving anything materialistic. Love will always be secondary for you.
      For Eg: If you are a woman who loves a Rich Fancy life with 5 Star Dinners and Expensive Cars & Bikes and World Trips then Forget Love and marry a Rich Bloke, else you will make the normal Man feel like a Looser for your Unjustified wants. In Fact a Woman in True Love will be ready to love and live with a Man irrespective of how rich or influential he is.
  • Are Shallow enough look specifically only for a Person of particular Skin Color, Figure, Height, Built etc to Love [Though it would be even insulting to call it love.] (Also read Perverting the foundations of love: "If you love m...)
    • Because, If you are shallow and you come to know of some aspects of the person that you are with which you did not know before, you will definitely freak out, choke and eventually breakup - CAUSING IMMENSE PAIN TO THE PERSON, WHO YOU, DO NOT DESERVE...
      For example:
      If you are a Shallow Male who ultimately find out that the Woman you are with, actually has saggy/ugly breasts, or does not have a pretty butt or does not have the Hour Glass figure you fantasize, then you will end up getting turned off, and will eventually hurt and CAUSE IMMENSE PAIN TO THE PERSON, WHO YOU, DO NOT DESERVE...
      If you are a Shallow Female with a fetish for big male penises, find out that the Man you are with actually has a small penis, you will keep getting frustrated and will end up ogling guys with a bigger bulge.
      In fact I personally have met a woman who used to ogle at the bulges of Men irrespective of who They were.
  • Are Beauty Oriented/Obsessed
    • Because If you end up accidentally being with (Yes most become blind when infatuated) a person who does not match up to you looks or your expectations then suddenly you realized some where down the line you will keep wishing that person was as good looking as Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie depending on if you are a Female or Male respectively)
      There was a woman who wanted her boyfriend to undergo pastic surgery so that he could look like her favorite movie star. And another who kept wishing her Boyfriend (Who is much taller than her) was more taller just so that She could wear Higher Heels.

Friday, October 12, 2012

"Men Don't Ogle At Women, Only You Are Perverted, That's Why You Think That They Will Ogle At me and look at Me like a Sex Object"

The things that HORMONE HIGH FEMALES say to convince their Brothers/Fathers/Boyfriends/Husbands to let them wear Slutty Clothes is Amazing...
"Men Don't Ogle At Women, Only You Are Perverted, That's Why You Think That They Will Ogle At me and look at Me like a Sex Object, When I Wear this Figure Hugging (OR) Transparent (OR) Cleavage Showing (OR) Butt Crack Showing (OR) All-In-One Dress "

Whats more interesting is Women from Conservative Countries often Talk about Westerners Not being Perverted Or that they Do Not Look at Women's Figures or Cleavages or Waxed Legs, Arms, Underarms Etc...

Oh Really?? Let me tell you how deep the Rabbit Hole Goes my dear!!!
Without mentioning Names (Who are from different States & Cultures & Religions) I would like to mention that FORGET STRANGERS, ACQUAINTANCES, OR FRIENDS, I HAVE PERSONALLY SEEN THEIR FATHERS AND BROTHERS AND COUSINS  TAKING A SNAP AT WHAT COMES TO MEET THEIR EYES (Though they May or May Not have intentionally wanted to.) WHEN THEIR SHAMELESS DAUGHTERS/SISTERS ETC. DELIBERATELY FLAUNT THEIR ASSETS & SEXUALITY.

As for the obvious outcome of such stimulation for many Uncontrolled perverted minds, it is them finding reasons to get too close enough to elbow, scrub (seemingly accidentally) and feel what their eyes have feasted on.

INTERESTING !!! Lets See some real footage:
Wanna Dispute a CNN Report??

Or if you are lucky Your Boobs and Ass or something better Could be on Youtube and be Stimulation for the countless perverts to Jack off, Just Like in this video Of Two Butt Flaunting Females, that a creep taped in Manhattan. He labeled it "mom & daughter out for a stroll - i taped phunky taping those asses."
 If he were a stalker or rapist looking for potential victims they could possibly one..

Now See more...

To be really honest NO REAL Brothers/Fathers/Boyfriends/Husbands would ever tolerate their Loved ones being looked up as Sex Objects.
The Ones who don't care are those WHO WOULD SELL THEIR SISTERS/DAUGHTERS/WIVES AT PRICE IF NEEDED AND JACK OFF WATCHING THEM GETTING SCREWED.

Well the issue is not yet Over What happens when Guys DON'T JUST STOP WITH OGLING AND TAKE THINGS AHEAD....



WELL THIS BASTARD EXPOSED HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND IN PUBLIC LIVE ON TV.
Actually I guess LOUD Attention Seeking Sluts Like Her deserve these kind of Boyfriends.
I guess the Boy friend was feeling sad, that all his Girl Friend's Boy Crazy, Attention Seeking Antics were not getting her the attention of the Players and so decided to Help her really GET THEIR ATTENTION and the attention of the TV Crew.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Some Realize Their Folly Some Dont...

Please Note: You need to watch the entire movie "Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi" to understand this clip.

 
As long as the person you love, returns Only Because of His/Her Realization of True Love it is God's Blessing.
Everything else is Just Pity, Empathy, Personal Debt, etc...

The Inevitable Result Of Platonic Or Non-Platonic Physical, Mental & Spiritual Violations

Please Note: You need to watch the entire movie "Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi" to understand this clip.

This is what happens when people cross their lines and limits and commit Physical, Mental and Spiritual Violations (Irrespective of whether it is Platonic or Non-Platonic) in the Name or Label of Friendship, Office-Colleague-Ship, Humanity and God know what not...

This you can see happening in all most all Neighborhoods/Workplaces especially where the culture and work environment is more, So Called "Broadminded", "Open Minded" or "Modern" and where Married People get to interact with other married people or singles more freely than necessary with out eyes raised. In fact Mingling during the Night and enjoying Night Life and Night Jobs together, make people more prone to Extra Marital Affairs, Infatuations, Attractions etc. due to obvious reasons...

All relationships go through some really rough patches at some point or the other in life.
BUT It is only the strong minded Humans with good morals, ethics and a good character Who DO NOT go around looking for a shoulder to cry on, Neither do they accept a shoulder that is given (generally by Smart Male/Female Players looking to take advantage of the broken & vulnerable victim in hand.)
and therefore never fall in such situations

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